+6663 – A little over a year ago I matched with an older guy on tinder and we talked for a while. We did a lot of sexual stuff over snapchat but we never actually met in person, he was married and didn’t want his wife to know. I know it was dumb of me to be talking to a married guy like this but I was stupid and horny. It was fun for a while but I felt bad about it all and knew it couldn’t go any further so after a couple months I ghosted him.
About 9 months ago I met a guy, he’s sweet, kind, handsome, just generally awesome. He’s the first guy I’ve ever felt like I could have a serious relationship with and I genuinely think he might be the guy I end up marrying one day, at least I hoped so until I found out how bad I fucked up. We we’re talking about when I was going to meet his parents since he had just met mine, and we planned on me going with him to a 4th of July party they usually have. He brings up a couple photos of the one from last year and I see the older guy I had been talking to, I ask who that was and he tells me its his dad. Internally I started freaking out, I faked being sick later that night and rushed home to have a full on panic attack about how I had completely fucked things up.
I ended up reaching out to his dad again and explaining what I had discovered and begged him to never tell my bf any of it. He agreed but also said he had missed me, that we should start talking again, and he was looking forward to finally seeing me in person. Now its all stressing me out even more because I don’t know how to deal with what he said on top of everything else and I’m worried he’s going to blackmail me or something.